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Wednesday, June 27, 2012

Passive-aggressive. One of the World's Dumbest Ways of Dealing with Problems.

People really need to learn to grow up. When you have a problem with someone, do the mature thing and tell them to there face in a calm and mature way. However, the worst thing you can possibly do when you have a problem with someone is be passive-aggressive about it. Specifically this means acting like you have no problems with this person to there face maybe even pretending like you guys are friends, and then thinking "oh (insert name here) will get the hint" if they ditch them or ignore them or create a fake Facebook of them. When ever someone does this, all it does is prove that persons immaturity. Its a cruel thing to do to a person to leave them wondering what went wrong. It is better and the mature thing to do when you tell them why you have a problem with them to there face. That way, if they can, they have the chance to change themselves to see if things get better before they get out of hand. When people act passive-aggressive, it show that they don't have the confidence to talk to someone about their feeling to their face. If you are on the receiving end of this, where you are the person being the victim of passive-aggressive action, I sympathize for you. What I can tell you is, if a person is not willing to talk to you to deal with their problems, they are not worth worrying about. All those people are doing is encouraging one of the worlds biggest problem. People not wanting to deal with their problems and just letting it blow over. When that happens things just build and build until it gets out of hand and then they have to deal with it. This common circumstance normally turns into a screaming match with the two sides.

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